what happens to your self-respect?

i'm confused. i dunno if i'm the only one who thinks this way. but please, don't become a person i hate... or am i, being selfish?
i hate cheap people...



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aah.. some draft from a long time ago ..that i just published.

some people.. well, VERY FEW STRANGER people adds me in FB (I add people around me -or up to 2nd degree-.. who are brave enough to add me) and then pm me about him/her wanting me as their friend. I'm REALLY flattered but... how about talking to me personally instead??? =.= well.. most of them are kids.. so.. I guess this is media as a means of communication to them... but that just weird :| talk to me personally first before I can pm you not feeling weird ^_^;

and my heart sank when a friend told me that her mother has cancer.. i don't know what to say and .. i just... why do i feel helpless like this??